OneLaw’s January 2025 Newsletter
In OneLaw’s January newsletter, Attorney Beth Herr reviews legal considerations for same sex parents in light of the new presidential administration and what can be done to safeguard custodial and decision-making rights for their children.
Read the full January 2025 newsletter HERE.
A text version is below.
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Is it really 2025?
Welcome to the new year, and the next quarter century!
In our newsletter this month, Attorney Beth Herr reviews legal considerations for same sex parents in light of the new presidential administration and what can be done to safeguard custodial and decision-making rights for their children.
Attorney Herr is our expert in family law. Attorney Holly Vietzke can help with any estate planning that needs to be addressed as well.
And did you know we also represent clients in consumer protection matters? Connect with us if you’ve encountered a Massachusetts business that engaged in unfair or deceptive business practices.
As always, OneLaw is dedicated to serving the personal legal needs of families and individuals across a variety of practice areas. Let us know how we can help you. Visit our website (https://www.one-law.us) or give us a call at 617-831-4355.
Peter A. Hahn, Esq.
Principal Attorney
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Legal Protections for Same Sex Families in an Uncertain Time
by Beth S. Herr, Esq.
It’s understandable if you are anxious, worried, or scared under the new administration about same sex marriage, same sex couples’ rights to their children, and LGBTQ rights.
Let us focus on married same sex parents and unmarried same sex parents for a moment. Since the election, I have had many clients call me asking what they should do to protect their parental rights.
Here are some of their concerns:
If we are married and we are both on the birth certificate, are both of our rights protected?
It is my recommendation that the non-biological parent should adopt the parties’ child(ren) even if they are on the birth certificate. Adoption provides more protection for both parents. I do not recommend traveling outside of Massachusetts with your child(ren) until the adoption takes place.
If we are not married but have co-parented our child(ren) but the non-biological partner has not adopted the child(ren), are both of our rights protected?
This question raises a serious but common issue, which is not impossible to circumnavigate. My recommendation is that the non-biological partner immediately adopt the parties’ child(ren) to provide them with legal acknowledgement that they are their child(ren)’s parent. I do not recommend traveling outside of Massachusetts with your child(ren) until the adoption takes place.
Whether married or unmarried, if one person in a same sex marriage has adopted the child(ren) but the co-parent of the child(ren) has not adopted the child(ren), are both our rights protected?
The adoptive parent has much more protection than the non-adoptive parent. I recommend that the parent who did not adopt the child(ren) do so as soon as possible. I do not recommend traveling outside of Massachusetts with your child(ren) until the adoption takes place.
If we used a surrogate to have our child(ren), are both of our rights protected?
If the surrogate signed over her parental rights but the couple never adopted their child(ren) or only one of the parents adopted the child, I recommend immediately that both parents adopt the child(ren).
In addition to the above questions, I also strongly recommend that everyone have health care proxies and powers of attorney and that same sex parents include their children in their documents to enable both parents to have the legal right to make health care and other decisions for their children.
An interesting thing that is also taking place is that several of my clients’ adult children have requested to be adopted by their non-biological parent to legalize their relationship with that parent. People seem to feel insulated living in Massachusetts. Right now, that sense of protection is reasonable, however we do not know what the future holds. If you have questions or concerns or need legal assistance, please feel free to contact us.
At OneLaw, Attorney Beth S. Herr specializes in family law, guardianship, and child welfare matters.
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CONSUMER PROTECTION LAW
Massachusetts General Laws Chapter 93A is the Consumer Protection Law that provides a legal action against businesses that engage in unfair and deceptive business practices.
The law allows a customer to recover actual financial damages, or two to three times that amount if the unfair or deceptive practices were knowing or willful. You can also recover attorney’s fees.
There is a notice requirement. At least 30 days before going to court, you must send a letter to the business informing them of the injury suffered, the unfair or deceptive business practices, and your requested relief (i.e. financial amount).
Contact OneLaw for a consultation if you’ve lost money to a business that’s been unfair or deceptive to you.
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